Relationships
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“My teenager does not talk to me”: what can a parent do?
Distance during adolescence can frighten a parent. Counselling here is for the parent, not individual counselling for the teenager.
When a child who used to talk more begins giving one-word answers or spending more time behind a closed door, a parent can feel that connection is disappearing. The first impulse is often to ask more questions.
A teenager may need a different kind of parental presence: availability without constant interrogation, boundaries without humiliation and interest that still respects a growing need for privacy.
A parent can work on how conversations are opened, how their own anxiety is managed and when a concern needs referral to an appropriate professional for the young person.
Elena does not provide individual counselling to teenagers. This topic relates exclusively to counselling and support for the parent.