Relationships
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When it feels as if everyone needs something from you
Constant availability can become a way of life until you realise there is no space left for yourself.
Obligations, family, work, messages, people waiting for an answer. When everything feels important, the self is often the first thing postponed until later.
The difficulty is not that you care. It is that care without limits can leave you functioning only reactively, responding to whatever demand feels loudest around you.
Sometimes the useful question is not “what do I need to finish?” but “what cannot continue like this?” That changes the direction of attention.
If exhaustion is intense or persistent, appropriate medical assessment may also be important. Counselling does not replace medical care.